jodoh yang terbaeeek
Hello again. Baru jer wat entry pasal my BFF which is the one before this post.
Lately, I've not been consistent in the amalans that I've been doing over 2 months before. the inconsistency is very severe that I feel very different now. sedeyh pon ade, but insyAlllah after the assignments are handed in this friday, which means, I am free, free,free from the torture of the assignments, I will start to continue and catch up what I have left behind for almost a week.
It'll be an outright lie if one says that he or she never talks or even thinks about getting married. memang tipu gile la kan.
So, lately, memang asyik fikir pasal kawen la kan. (memang gatal, but it's normal for girls in the twenties to be having this kind of thoughts. haha). Bile fikir2 balek, Ya Rabbi, da besor panjang da sebenarnyer. Mom always say that " Mama umor macam awak ni, da keje da ". Well, mom, memang wani tgh keje pon, still in training jer. :)
Ok. its normal for us to have some kind of expectation of how we want out future spuse to be. Typical girls would want tall dark and handsome . Normal la kan.
"Aku nak tinggi la kan, sebab aku pon tak berape nak tinggi"
"Aku nak muke cam Remy Ishak. Gelap2 sikit. Cam Ken***y tuh la best. Macho tuh, gelap2, muke masculine. Jambu2 ni, kureng skit"
"Meet my future husband, Jesse McCartney!" -sungguh tak bleh blah. :))
"Aku nak orang yang scholar petronas, keje kat KLCC.hehe. Kalau dpt bonus setengah tahun, almost rm30 k tuh. feh feh feh..."
however, we've to always bear in mind that we are not always in control of things. for example, the dreams of haveing those A++ qualities in our future husbands. In fact, people said, the more you want something, the further you'll be from it. So, the best thing is to pray for the best. Minta dikurniakan yang terbaek untuk diri for only He knows what is best for us.
Yela, kadang2 those good looking man pon banyak probnyer. Because they are good looking, there will be people who will be jealous of the marriage that you guys will be having. Karang ade la probnyer. Fitnah, frequent quarrels and sometimes, the marriage could also leads to separation, walaupon baru jer kawen. Susah dowh.
But this does not mean that not-so good looking guys are all nice and good...ade jugak la yang gatal tak bleh blah, mate kernajang and pantang nmpak perempuan terus nak naek daun. And this does not also means that all handsome guys gatal. It all comes back to their Iman.
I believe that, wherever we go, we will always return to our root, our religion. And I strongly believe that when the root is strong, insyAllah everyhting will be fine. Smooth.
But to find these people of good roots, os another big problem.
the other day dibah told me about to Hafiz-s who are hired to be the Imams during the Ramadhan. Hafiz A was a responsible young man who did his job. Hafiz B on the other hand, only came and did his job on the first 2 weeks of ramadhan. So,when the pay day reached, Hafiz A was paid rm1000, while Hafiz B was only paid rm500.
tersebutla kesah, these two Hafizs live under one roof. And on the last day when they were leaving, Hafiz left the house first, followed by Hafiz A. When Hafiz A reached home, he was very excited to show his mother the money that he has gotten from his first job. Tengok2, bukak2 beg, the money was gone. Being suspicious to Hafiz B, Hafiz A tried calling him several times to ask him about the money. However, he was totally M.I.A.
Moral of the story, tak sumer yang ader basic agama ni baek. Bak kate dibah, lately, being a Hafiz these days is not anymore Lillahi ta'ala. Instead it has become a trend who knows where it come from. Astaghfirullah hal'azim.
Jadi, nak cari jodoh, the best way is to refer to your parents. Kalau ade yang nak masuk merisik, eloklah refer tros kat mak. InsyaAllah, everything will be ok. And if it doesn't, always remember that Allah has His plans lined up for us. Yang kita sangka buruk, mungkin is the best for us.
Wallahu'alam
Either way, always pray for the best for He listens to everything that we say. InsyAllah akan diperkenankan. Ameen.
Lately, I've not been consistent in the amalans that I've been doing over 2 months before. the inconsistency is very severe that I feel very different now. sedeyh pon ade, but insyAlllah after the assignments are handed in this friday, which means, I am free, free,free from the torture of the assignments, I will start to continue and catch up what I have left behind for almost a week.
It'll be an outright lie if one says that he or she never talks or even thinks about getting married. memang tipu gile la kan.
So, lately, memang asyik fikir pasal kawen la kan. (memang gatal, but it's normal for girls in the twenties to be having this kind of thoughts. haha). Bile fikir2 balek, Ya Rabbi, da besor panjang da sebenarnyer. Mom always say that " Mama umor macam awak ni, da keje da ". Well, mom, memang wani tgh keje pon, still in training jer. :)
Ok. its normal for us to have some kind of expectation of how we want out future spuse to be. Typical girls would want tall dark and handsome . Normal la kan.
"Aku nak tinggi la kan, sebab aku pon tak berape nak tinggi"
"Aku nak muke cam Remy Ishak. Gelap2 sikit. Cam Ken***y tuh la best. Macho tuh, gelap2, muke masculine. Jambu2 ni, kureng skit"
"Meet my future husband, Jesse McCartney!" -sungguh tak bleh blah. :))
"Aku nak orang yang scholar petronas, keje kat KLCC.hehe. Kalau dpt bonus setengah tahun, almost rm30 k tuh. feh feh feh..."
however, we've to always bear in mind that we are not always in control of things. for example, the dreams of haveing those A++ qualities in our future husbands. In fact, people said, the more you want something, the further you'll be from it. So, the best thing is to pray for the best. Minta dikurniakan yang terbaek untuk diri for only He knows what is best for us.
Yela, kadang2 those good looking man pon banyak probnyer. Because they are good looking, there will be people who will be jealous of the marriage that you guys will be having. Karang ade la probnyer. Fitnah, frequent quarrels and sometimes, the marriage could also leads to separation, walaupon baru jer kawen. Susah dowh.
But this does not mean that not-so good looking guys are all nice and good...ade jugak la yang gatal tak bleh blah, mate kernajang and pantang nmpak perempuan terus nak naek daun. And this does not also means that all handsome guys gatal. It all comes back to their Iman.
I believe that, wherever we go, we will always return to our root, our religion. And I strongly believe that when the root is strong, insyAllah everyhting will be fine. Smooth.
But to find these people of good roots, os another big problem.
the other day dibah told me about to Hafiz-s who are hired to be the Imams during the Ramadhan. Hafiz A was a responsible young man who did his job. Hafiz B on the other hand, only came and did his job on the first 2 weeks of ramadhan. So,when the pay day reached, Hafiz A was paid rm1000, while Hafiz B was only paid rm500.
tersebutla kesah, these two Hafizs live under one roof. And on the last day when they were leaving, Hafiz left the house first, followed by Hafiz A. When Hafiz A reached home, he was very excited to show his mother the money that he has gotten from his first job. Tengok2, bukak2 beg, the money was gone. Being suspicious to Hafiz B, Hafiz A tried calling him several times to ask him about the money. However, he was totally M.I.A.
Moral of the story, tak sumer yang ader basic agama ni baek. Bak kate dibah, lately, being a Hafiz these days is not anymore Lillahi ta'ala. Instead it has become a trend who knows where it come from. Astaghfirullah hal'azim.
Jadi, nak cari jodoh, the best way is to refer to your parents. Kalau ade yang nak masuk merisik, eloklah refer tros kat mak. InsyaAllah, everything will be ok. And if it doesn't, always remember that Allah has His plans lined up for us. Yang kita sangka buruk, mungkin is the best for us.
Wallahu'alam
Either way, always pray for the best for He listens to everything that we say. InsyAllah akan diperkenankan. Ameen.
4 responses:
what i wanted in a man, was opposed to what i feared in a man.
So I when I made the choice,I kept in check with it, but like my mama said..."there's no guarantee, if u want a guarantee, buy a toaster"
hehe.thanks kak.
tp toaster tak bleh bw kite g india...:)
well..u can always buy a ticket to India..anyway, you're going somewhere yourself kaaan..
tapiii ur life look sooo easy...
mine's problematic je memanjang...
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